Olivia is in the phase of saying “I can do it BY MYSELF!” Then she pauses and asks, “mommy can you help me” shortly after. We went trick or treating with our friends. Jon was trying to tell me to watch from a distance instead of hovering beside them each door, just letting them go to the door while watching near by.
i wasn’t used to it but i know eventually it was meant to happen sometime. I guess I have been used to keeping close, I forget at times I have to also let her learn some independence. Although she can;t trick or treat by herself alone yet, I guess I was a little sad cause it meant she is growing up. Jon tried to tell me to let Carter to try to go with them and watch near by until he ran and fell.
‘I said to jon, nooope, I’ll help him. At least Carter still wants my help, i think. Hhaha
